‘Pandamonium’ Group show @ Signal Gallery, London. http://www.signalgallery.com/
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken, probably more than once and it hurts more every time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it feels. You’ll blame a new love for what old one’s did. You’ll cry because time is passing by too fast. You’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh way too much and love like you have never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is one minute of happiness that you will never get back.
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When it comes to finding the right person, it all comes down to how well they know you, and how well they would be willing to get to know you. Finding a person who would understand your faults and love you for every single one of them. Some one who will cherish their time with you, and never doubt that you cherish their time with them. The person that can fight with you and hurt you, but still be there for you through thick and thin. It may not be the good guy, that makes things easy, but it’s the right guy, the one that you love, and you know loves you back.
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I certainly believe we all suffer damage, one way or another. How could we not, except in a world of perfect parents, siblings, neighbors, companions? And then there is the question, on which so much depends, of how we react to the damage: whether we admit it or repress it, and how this affects our dealings with others. Some admit the damage and try to mitigate it; some spend their lives trying to help others who are damaged; and then there are those whose main concern is to avoid further damage to themselves, at whatever cost. And those are the ones who are ruthless, and the ones to be careful of.
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| — | Julian Barnes, The Sense of an Ending (via her0inchic) |
Someone told me they admire our relationship and we are able to manage to be in a relationship for a long period of time. And with a question blew my mind “Is your relationship real?”
Just protecting myself. Even though I might think I am emotionally strong, I am still horrified about the upcoming pain. I might be a survivor but doesn’t mean I would survive next time. I am protecting myself because I am scare of being hurt again.
I sincerely look up to those couples who have been a long term relationship. They have survived rumors, ridiculous admirers, fights, heartache etc. I admire each and every one of them able to stay as one for such long period of time. I admire their love for each other and still act as they are just began their relationship. I admire their tolerance and the determination of never giving up on each other. I look to these couples because it gives me hope. It gives me hope that real love still exists whether it’s teenage love or elderly love. I love, love. It is the most beautiful thing in life and everyone should experience what it is likes to be truly in love and truly being love by their partners. I am disappoint how people my age misuse “love”, throwing around as if is a simple word. It isn’t, never is and never will.
